Wednesday, March 6, 2013

The BDSM Emblem and BDSM History


The BDSM community is perhaps the most rich and diverse sexual subculture in the world. It is populated by people from all different walks of life, sexual orientations, practices, and preferences. Besides a common interest in all things kinky, there is little else that defines the community as a cohesive group. In fact, the modern BDSM community has stemmed from a marriage of two separate sexual subcultures: the gay leather bar community and the swingers sex scene. While the former had a heavy emphasis on power dynamics and protocol, the latter was all about the sensuality of a physical experience, sexual or otherwise.

After the groups came together, there was more cohesion within the community, but to this day there is still a lot of debate surrounding what is “safe” or “sane” to do. The only thing the community seems to be in whole-hearted agreement on is that consent is important in every encounter, regardless of what “role” one chooses to assume.

The BDSM Emblem, in a sense, is a summation of the similarities that most (if not all) members of the community share with each other. The three separate sections of the Emblem represent the triad of basic rules most kinksters subscribe too, “Safe, Sane, Consensual.” The arms that divide these sections are also thought to be representative of a whip in motion. Impact play (and type of activity that involves the impact of an object on a person) is one of the most popular and easily recognizable forms of kinky play. The color of the sections, black, is meant to symbolize the “dark” nature of the activity. Not only do most kinksters prefer to dress in black, but a lot of kink activity can address very personal, private issues and thus the darkness can be seen as a more of an aspect of introversion, rather than evil or deviance. Finally, the holes that are present in each of the sections recognize that there is always room for improvement. Many people who practice kink as part of their daily life are likely to believe that one can always learn more about their practice or that knowledge can never be complete.

All these images together portray the general feeling of what it means to be part of the BDSM community and perhaps what it strives to be. Due to the great desire for anonymity within and outside the community, there is sometimes a limitation on the kinship that can form. As freer communication becomes more and more accessible, however, these barrios fall and a more complete community forms.

Sources:
http://emblemproject.sagcs.net/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bdsm#Origins

3 comments:

  1. This post was very informative, giving me background information of BDSM, which is my paper topic. It's fascinating on what the emblem symbolizes and that the community and its members are well aware of their actions. I kind of wish you were able to elaborate on the two communities that came together to build the BDSM community. How did each community start and with what purpose? Were they similar in nature or if they were different in their practices, what caused them to get together to start up the BDSM culture?
    Also, you mentioned the color scheme and I was wondering if you had any idea or read anything about why they prefer wearing black? Because I personally associate such kink play with red as it's such an intimate and passionate activity.

    -Myung C.

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  2. Rachael, thanks for writing about this topic, it's something that is very intriguing and compelling to me as I wholeheartedly agree with the freedom of sexual expressivity that the culture represents. I wasn't entirely clear on what BDSM even was until taking this class, and learning more about the history of the practice(s) here and the origination of the symbol was really captivating. I was specifically curious and a little skeptical of the fact that the darkness symbolizes introversion, because to me, it seems that having courage and self-esteem allows for one to engage in these activities- more extroverted characteristics. So while I understand that these practices are more of a kind of secrecy I guess, I think that a person really is an extrovert in the sense that they know what they want sexually and how to receive that satisfaction, does that make sense? I think of an introvert as more of a person who would engage in sexual acts by themselves or with not many partners, etc, etc, and through learning about the BDSM culture there is more a sense of community and not isolation. I also would like to add that I think it's really a shame that BDSM is associated with evil and deviance as you pointed out. I would actually counter the exact opposite, arguing that those who engage in BDSM are refraining from malicious actions in that the practices are CONSENSUAL, therefore it isn't evil, it's just an extremely successful way in which people have developed to obtain sexual freedom and satisfaction exactly how they want to.

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  3. I think its super interesting that there is a BDSM emblem! It's interesting because I didn't actually know about BDSM until Rihanna's music video S&M came out, and even then it was difficult to access because of the censoring of what society stigma's as "violent" or "kinky" sexual activity. However, I think its nice, and reassuring that there's a community for BDSM members, so that there is support against such negative stereotypes

    Cheryl Z

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